Frequently asked questions

Selfie ft. smiling, body from smile to shoes, holding drink and keys

Will you date my girlfriend? [and other ridiculous questions men send me]

No.

What’s your OnlyFans?

I don’t have one. Buy me a pretzel instead.

Can I guest post??

No.

What other sites do you have?

I run a fundamental site β€” a personal site πŸŽ€.

That’s it, currently.

Domains that point to this blog directly

hej.gay
hejgay.com
ijanelively.co
ijanelively.com
janelively.com
janepedia.com
thejanedarling.com
yeahiblog.com

Do you have any general blogging advice?

The only way you’ll ever progress is if you stop trying to adhere to everyone else’s standards and be yourself. There is no other person who has everything that makes up you — your passion, your personality, your professional skills, your guilty pleasures.

β€œThe things that don’t β€œfit in” that make you unique make you yourself — that is your gift to the world.” ~Sharon Stone

Find more tips in my internet category.

So you have dissociative identity disorder??

Yes, and:

  • The system’s name is the Darling System.
  • Integration is our endgame. We hate living as a multiplicity, but for now we practice functional multiplicity. At present, Jane is the intended final host/alter.
  • The body is employed in a position that allows for self-expression in the name of covertness, which inadvertently allows us to be ourselves. Coworkers may view it as us playing characters, but…it’s actually a DID system.
  • System’s pronouns are they/them. Collectively, we are Jane Darling. Refer to Jane Lively individually as Jane, pronouns she/her.
  • System total is 15. Used to be more.
  • The littles are not allowed online.
  • It’s okay to ask to speak to a specific person.
  • It’s okay to ask who’s fronting right now.
  • It’s okay to ask for alter-specific content and/or for an alter to write about a specific topic. (Contact us.)
  • Protector Betz is almost always blended or on the sidelines.
  • The headspace looks more like Inside Out instead of a house, castle or neighborhood.
  • If, in person, you witness long-term dissociation, play One Day Baby We’ll Be Old by Asaf Avidan, make us smell warm cashmere amber wax melts, or apply a plush texture to our hands.
  • DID definitely affects dating. System does not inter-date. The only one interested in pursuing external romantic relationships is Jane.

Don’t see your Q? Email me via [cloak email=no@janelively.co.